Monthly Archives: December 2015

How Do I Buy A Membership Without Getting Extra Charges On Adult Dating Sites?

Some paid members are wondering why they have been charged more than what it cost on their plans.

They were surprised that they were billed an extra charge and they didn’t even know how it happened and why? Well, this post will explain it to you why and how it happened?

First, you must be mindful about the billing page. Be sure what payment processor you are on before you fill out the forms on it. So you know where to go later if you want to cancel your membership. There are numerous payment processor used by these sites. They are and for Sweetdiscreet, iHookup, Blacktryst and

But what are these payment processors?

A payment processor is a service that enables Merchants to receive debit or Credit Card payments online by providing a connection to an Acquiring Bank. These processors perform many functions such as evaluating whether transactions are valid and approved. If the customer has sufficient funds, the transaction is authorized,  the funds transfer from the customer’s account, and the website is notified.

So to avoid being billed for extra charges, you must not include special offers or another subscription to another site. How to do this? It’s simple. Just uncheck the small box below the forms on the billing page before you pay or complete your purchase or your transaction. See the pics below:



Those encircled portions shown in the pics are the special offers or subscriptions to another sites. To avoid these, be sure to uncheck the small box so you would be sure not to pay for another subscription and won’t get extra charges.

Hope this post helps you in some ways. For more questions, just leave your comments below.


How To Verify A Person On Adult Dating Sites?

There are 3 simple ways to verify a person if he or she is legit and real. And you don’t need to take your wallet out just to verify someone or yourself.

  1. Call Her/Him – Ask for a phone number where you can call her/him. If he/she can’t provide you a local phone number and won’t accept calls and won’t call you back then she/he is totally not real. Don’t believe on texts or emails because they can easily create fake accounts and won’t leave a trace. And even if they told you it’s private and don’t want to disclose their privacy, then you should start to doubt about it. Always follow your instinct. Mostly these kinds of conversation ends up to a scam.
  2. Ask For A Photo – Selfies are the best way to verify a person. You can ask her/him to take a selfie with a piece of paper which their names are written on it. They cannot fake it cause it is in real time. If they cannot provide that then you should stop talking to this person.
  3. Video Chats – There a lot of video chat applications that are for free. You can simply ask the person to have a video chat. This way you can talk to him/her in real time with voice and video. Be careful of pre-recorded videos. Mostly its about 3-5mins and it starts all over again after being played for a certain period of time. If this won’t work then it proves that the person you are talking to is not for real. They are hiding behind the camera.

If you have something more to add on these 3 ways, you can write it below. Post your comments and tips. This will help members of this site avoid being conned and scammed. And lets have a fun and safe adventure on these adult dating sites.

Why Would I Join Adult Dating Sites?

Adult Dating sites were created for Adults seeking for online pleasures.

It is for everyone who wants to have some fun online and socialize with horny men and women in the comfort of their homes. It was made to help every Adults to connect with every like-minded singles, attached or married adults who wants to explore their sexual needs. Share common interests and fantasies in your local area or around the world. If you’re feeling horny and want to chat and express your fantasy and sexual desires, then this might be the right place for you. You can connect with anyone who are looking for the same things as you do. Someone that might be interesting to you. Chat, flirt and arrange a meet up or a hookup when everything goes well between you and the other members. Everyone who are above 18 years of age and have reached the age of majority in the jurisdiction which you accessing these sites from then you are very much welcome to join. But If you are offended by sexually explicit material or you do not want to be exposed to the type of material displayed on these Web sites, please leave the Websites immediately. Additionally, if it is illegal to view sexually explicit material in your jurisdiction, you must exit the Website and discontinue use of the Service immediately. The Website makes no representation of any kind regarding the legality of any of the material displayed on the Website in your jurisdiction. Read more about the Terms of Use of these sites before you decide to join. These sites are not actually for everyone!

But if you are looking to have some fun online, wants to connect with men and women and wants to explore your sexual needs and desires then these sites are for you. Choose one that suits your preferences and start your journey on online dating. Fulfill your sexual desires and fantasies! Join Now!

What Benefits Can I Get From A Paid Membership On Adult Dating Sites?

Buying a membership lets you use all the features of the sites and benefits you from connecting with other members.

With a paid membership you can enjoy exchanging messages with other members, chat and flirt in real time with live cams. Occasionally these sites offer promotional trial memberships to its premium services at special discounted prices. Users that sign up for such trial memberships will be automatically renewed at the end of the trial period at the normal membership rate specified at the moment of trial subscription, unless the User cancels before the end of the trial period. Sometimes they also have exclusive sale offers that are valid for a period of time. So you should watch out for that.

But why should I pay for these services? Registered Users are able to access a limited set of the Service’s features without charge after providing required registration information. Paid Members are given access to all features included as part of the membership option chosen when applying for the membership. Being a paid member will help you connect with other members. Will help you get to know someone before meeting up. Finding someone real and genuine from any Adult dating sites would take some time. You just have to be patient. Although it’s a sex site don’t expect to get someone for sex real fast.. Because if you do, you will end up with whores and sluts. But through a continued conversation in a period of time would gain trust and confidence. Meeting someone right away just to get to know the person is not advisable for women. Because meeting a total stranger just out of the blue is awkward and most women are anxious to meet someone whom they have met online. They are not really comfortable until they know the person’s background and get to know the person very well. But there is the excitement when meeting someone new.. You just have to be careful and know the person’s background before deciding on meeting up for anything. And instead of spending money on gas, dining, and usually on some form of entertainment, such as movies or a concert just to see if you like the person, why not pay for a membership? This would be a good start for your journey of online dating. This will help you get to know and connect with more people in your comfort zone. Then you can start to choose the person whom you want to meet. Because you never know the first date could go terribly and you may never see each other again. And you have wasted some of your hard earned cash.

So what are you waiting for? Choose your plans that would suit your budget and Sign up Now!. Start socializing with one of hottest Adult Social Network Today and Have fun finding what you are looking for! It’s an Adventure!

Are Adult Dating Sites Legit And Safe?

Most of you might have these questions and doubts on your minds. Are these sites legit and safe? Are there any real members and users on it?

From my experience, I could say YES, I’ve been a member of these sites for about 8 years now (that’s almost a decade) and I’ve been active since then. But not really active that I log on it almost every day.. I just log on it once in a while or from time to time when I have some extra time to spend for my pleasures.

That time I was also anxious about joining these sites. I also have the same doubts and questions that you might have right now. But I said to myself, you wouldn’t know until you give it a try. Besides, it is free to register. So I filled out the forms and signed up for a free account and set up my profile. After verifying my email, I already received messages and friend requests from women, but it seems, some of these women are not for real.

These are computer generated profile and you can find them on,, and And they are called ‘Sweethaarts’ and labeled with SH with a heart icon on top of it. The ‘Sweethaarts’ service is incorporated to encourage and facilitate broader enjoyment of all the Website’s services, including the following:

a. Enhance the online companionship and entertainment experience
b. Demonstrate to users the features and communication tools of the site
c. Encourage broader participation in our services
d. Educate members regarding the site’s various features and communication tools
e. Ensure compliance with our Terms and Conditions
f. Facilitate account development

And no physical meeting will ever take place between you and any Sweethaart, and that the exchange of messages between you and a Sweethaart is for entertainment purposes.

But don’t worry, these Sweethaarts are harmless and they just exist on the site for entertainment purposes only. There are still real people on it. You just have to find them. And the first thing you should do is take a look at their status. You can easily tell if the profile is real or not by reading their status. You’ll notice that they are updated regularly and they have no signs like of SH or Sweethaarts. These are real profiles created by real users.. Just be aware of fakes, cam girls and scammers. You can easily identify them if they ask you to join another website or ask for money from you before meeting or any other activities. Read more about them on here!

And if you ask me if this site is safe? The answer is still yes. These sites use https:// for encryption. But you might ask what does it mean? Well, for IT experts it is called Hyper Text Transfer Protocol Secure. Its a secured version of HTTP. And it’s a network protocol which data is sent between your browser and the website that you are connected to. The ‘S’ at the end of HTTPS stands for ‘Secure’. It means all communications between your browser and the website are encrypted. You’ll see this at the start of your website address and you can see a display of a padlock icon in the address bar to visually indicate that an HTTPS connection is in effect. For more safety tips online. You can read more about here!

These are a totally legit and secured sites. It is just the users who are trying to abuse the site services and they do not pre screen every individual who joins the sites. So to help these sites to become clean and safe from these abusers, we just have to be aware and report immediately if you have been contacted by them. Block and Ignore these profiles or report them immediately so they will be deleted and so you can help these adult dating communities become a safe place for all its users..

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How To Spot Fake Profiles, Cam Girls And Scammers On Adult Dating Sites?

The most common problems and complaints of men about adult dating sites are Fake Accounts, Cam Girls and Scammers.

They are so annoying that they keep on coming back and you can almost find them on every adult dating site on the internet. No matter which site you use they will always be there. They are all flooded with fakes, cam girls and scams. So how you can avoid these? Here are some tips for you so you won’t waste your precious time for these time wasters.


Once chatting with these girls you might find them to be a bit vague on their location, i.e. They grew up somewhere around the world which states on their profile and currently (and most conveniently) staying at your location. Mainly for vacation or for work or even just visiting a family relatives that they haven’t seen for a while. And after a few moments of chatting which is about getting to know each other, they will tell you that they want to hook up with you some time but they will ask you to verify yourself or ask you to have a security code or any security precautions or even just a favor which will cost you for some amount. And eventually, even if you ask them to meet for just a drink or a meal, they will ask you the same things.


While it is not against the rules of these sites to use photos from the internet, there are clearly scammers on adult dating sites that try to pass those photos off as their own. How to catch a liar out? Easy! … The photo, open up Google Images, drag the image from the original window to your Google Image search field and Google will automatically search and list all websites that feature the image of your search. I don’t suggest you tell people you have searched their images.. But you will be able to question them about photos and make a decision on whether to continue talking to them based on their answers. The real ones have a label of verified photo on their profile. Or you can even just ask for a selfie with her name or your name on a piece of paper.


There are two types of cam girls. One is real and the other are fakes. Real ones won’t ask you to go on another site and pay for another subscriptions which fake cam girls does. Real cam girls charge you for their live private shows while fakes charges you for sites subscriptions without even seeing them on cam. And you end up horny as hell with a maxed out credit card. So how to avoid being scammed by fake cam girls? Pay attention to their language and think smart.. If that’s not helping you, here’s some conversation examples to make it plain as day:

1. “But it’s all free baby don’t worry” (yes, worry.. Walk away.. No, wait, run.. it’s going to cost you if you stay)

2. “I’m going to send you a link where you can get access to my cam” (cams work on Fuckbook fine, you don’t need to verify, activate or register them.. Therefore, if she is taking you to another site be prepared to pay)

3. “Please vote for me” (translates “I’m trying to get your money for my boss”)

4. “I’m going to let you borrow my guest code on my private page, but promise me you’ll never give it to others ok?” (no she isn’t, she is luring you deeper)

5. “I’m about to go offline, is there some other way we can chat?”

6. “I can’t upload photos here, send me your email address and I’ll send you some that way”

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Once you have talked to these women, they will start to get to know your basic background. They will ask where do you live? What’s your status? Single? Married? Or Living with someone? What do you do for work? Once they know all these things they will now start to ask for money before meeting. Or ask you to pay for their plane tickets or even ask you to join another site for verification. And usually they ask for help for their sick family and relatives. There’s nothing wrong in helping other people, but you should verify it if she/he telling the truth. How to verify a person? Click here. These people are totally a scam. No doubts about it. When you end up with this kind of conversation you should stop talking to that person.

So the best method to avoid these things to happen or to avoid these fakes, cam girls and scammers is to help each other by reporting them to the site Moderators or just simply block their profiles.

On iHookup. SweetDiscreet, Gcruise and Blacktryst you can simply click ignore on the upper right side of their profile.

The more each of us work at removing them, the cleaner the site will become.

I’m sure there must be other examples of warning signs you have experienced. Feel free to post your (respectful) comments below. Remember these sites is a community and our strength lies in our differences, not in our similarities. So help clean and make this site safe for all its users.

iHookup For Physical Attraction

iHookup is an online dating site that caters to flexible, fun and adventurous people chasing the thrill of physical attraction.

This site is the brainchild of a handful of forward-thinking women who realized that women like hooking up as much as men do… and there are plenty of other women out there who aren’t ashamed to admit it! We say if it feels good, do it!

We’ve got nothing against relationships. We tried it, had some laughs, shed some tears, and now we’re ready to move on and sow our online oats. iHookup is all about rubbing your single life in the face of traditional dating sites. So what if you just got out of a relationship and are looking to engage in some no-strings-attached study sessions or you’re just passing some time before you meet someone to tie your wagon to. We’re not your mom and we’ll never ask you when you’re going to find a nice boy or girl to settle down with. We’re also not that annoying relative at your cousin William’s wedding (yeah, we give that marriage 2 years, tops) that asks you if you’re going to be next one down the aisle.

We started iHookup because we felt that traditional dating sites were ignoring the fact that physical attraction is the most important element of dating. You want to hear their voice, watch their body language and see what they look like in real life before you decide to play the whole dating game with them. You know the one – you spend countless hours sending messages back and forth, maybe you’re lucky enough to move to the phone, and in a couple of weeks, you might nail down a coffee date…only to find out there’s no physical attraction. Back to the drawing board…

On iHookup, you cut out the middle man (the middle man being the pointless and painful dating game). Right away, you can see if you and your hookup de jour share that intoxicating chemistry. No more wasted time equals more energy spent on people you actually have fun with… and trust us when we say that you’re going to need all the energy you can get.

No need to thank us – that’s just how we roll.


Hookup: So many definitions, so little time. It can mean an alliance, an arrangement of mechanical parts or when someone can get you a deal on those sweet speakers you’ve had your eye on. Those definitions are pretty boring. Others see a hookup as when two people meet to hang out, make out or do the dirty (or any variation of the three). Yep, that’s the one we’re going with. It can mean a casual relationship that takes place over time or it can be a one night stand. Hookups can start casual and turn into something more serious, or they are agreed upon as a “friends with benefits” arrangement. No matter which one you go with, the hookup is a casual creature that works best when the two people involved keep it easy and breezy.

Physical Attraction: A spark between two people that puts butterflies in your stomach and an ache in your loins. You can’t explain it and you don’t have to. It’s all about attraction and the intense rush that comes when you physically connect with another person. You just want to rip off your clothes (and the clothes of the person you’re with) and just get down to business. Physical attraction burns hot and fast. It doesn’t last forever and that’s perfect – you don’t need it to.

“Un”-relationship: The committed relationship’s evil twin brother. When you’re in the un-relationship zone, you don’t want to be committed to another person. The only thing you want to be committed to is having a kick-ass great time. Fun, adventurous and flexible – that describes a person who’s ready to try out an un-relationship.

Two Night Stand: When you want to go back for more after the first hookup, but have no intention of meeting up again after the second time. Because everyone knows, after you hookup three times, you’re on your way to a relationship. This type of hookup means you like what you tasted the first time around, but after taking that second bite, you realize you’re tired of eating that particular dish and want to move on to the next entree.

Friends with Benefits: Screw BFFs – it’s time to make some FWBs. You like this person enough to hang out with them, but there’s no kind of commitment in the cards. There’s no hand holding or PDAs when you hang out – you like each other’s company, you get along and when the mood strikes you, you move it on into the bedroom. You don’t get your FWB a Valentine’s Day card, you buy them a beer and get it on.

Activity Partner: You need a +1 – you’ve got an extra concert ticket, need a tennis partner or someone on your arm for your cousin’s wedding. What you need is an activity partner – someone to hang out with platonically who also happens to share your interests. You find yourself needing an activity partner when your friends start getting married and aren’t available to drop what their doing to go to a kick-ass concert you just won tickets for.


We have nothing against relationships. We think they are great. But we understand that people go through different phases in their lives and a relationship might not be at the top of their “to do” list at the moment. You may have other important things on the go that make it impossible to fit a relationship into your life at the moment, or maybe you still have a bad taste in your mouth because of the way your last one ended. Whatever your reasons are, we get it – we’re cool like that.

When you talk about physical attraction, it’s all about the body. We here at iHookup dig getting naked, but we also know that people don’t want to see a stranger’s private parts when they log onto our site. That’s why you can post all the naked pictures you want in your private photo album. This way, you don’t have to share your naked form with the rest of the dating community and you can save a little mystery for when you really want to grab that certain someone’s attention.

Using hookup in a sentence

Dude, I met this girl online and hit it off. Next thing I know, I went to her place to hookup.

Hey, I’ve had a couple of drinks. Feel like a hookup?

I met this guy, but I wasn’t really interested in dating him, so we got together for a hookup.