There are several ways how to meet someone online.
One way is to join a dating site. But except from dating sites, there are still some other online communities or social networks, and chat rooms where you can meet someone online, unless you are searching for a different thing.
Well, for the past 10 years I’ve joined a lot of dating sites. I started from normal or mainstream dating sites to adult dating sites. And they can both be entertaining and sometimes a bit annoying and frustrating. It could be entertaining if you live alone and feels lonely or even just bored and horny. All you just have to do is to create an account and log on it, fill out your profile and browse other member’s profile. Look at their activity feeds and chat or talk to different types of people. You can share some interests and maybe some problems that you may have, even if you can’t see whom you are talking to. But it would be great and more enjoyable if you can do a live chat and see who you are talking to on a webcam in real time. Although you should be careful cause sometimes people use a pre-recorded video to con people. (Read the safety tips page or other blogs on this site for your online security). Dating sites can be frustrating because you can’t find someone to talk to. They will just send you a friend request, add you to their contacts or favorites, and send you flirts and that’s it. They won’t even bother to answer your messages. But I think it’s because we all do have our busy lives. And it is not our priority to stay online on adult dating sites all day. We still have some other things to do like your job/work, run some errands, and some other personal things. So all you need is patience cause it will help you succeed in online dating.
The best way to find your perfect match is to talk to the person personally on the site before exchanging contact infos. Get to know him/her more and better so if you find some chemistry then it should be a good start. But if there’s none, then there’s no need to go any further with that certain person. You just have to move on and find someone else. I’m sure you will still find some other people on the site that would pique your interest.
But you should be cautious on choosing someone because some people will just try to play games on you or just make fun of you. But that’s the world of dating online. Men take advantage of women and women take advantage of men.. Sometimes you’ll meet genuine and real people who are true to themselves and sometimes you’ll come across to people who are pretenders who just want to play games and make fun of you or even take advantage of you. And mostly it’s a con or a scam and fraud if it involves money. So you better be careful with these types of people. Some will try to extort money from you in exchange of your nude pics or videos. They will use it to blackmail you. So you better be careful of whom you are talking to. I don’t think you should trust a person right away on your first conversation. Never give out sensitive personal infos like your bank accounts or credit card numbers or even phone numbers. Or even your nude pics or videos. You can only share it to people whom you trust and trustworthy enough to keep your nude pics and photos privately. Someone who is discreet.. Email would be good for privacy if you like to keep in touch off the dating site.. Web based email would be the best.. You can just create an extra email account for this so your personal email won’t be compromised.. So even though that extra email will get hacked, they won’t get any more personal infos from it.
So if you would like to find someone real and genuine from any dating site, then it should take some time.. Just be patient. Because through a continued conversation in a period of time would gain trust and confidence. I don’t believe in meeting right away cause you never know who you are meeting with. Crimes are happening everywhere these days.. Even in public. You are not truly safe if you really don’t know the person very well. But i agree, there is the excitement when meeting someone new.. You just have to be careful and know the person’s background before deciding on meeting up for anything. If you’re a girl bring a friend or even just let a friend know if ever you are going to meet someone. So if ever something happened to you, your friend will know.
For men who just want to have sex or want to get laid through adult dating site, I think you should not to expect to get it straight right away. Women usually turned off and freak out when you asked her “wanna fuck?” or “want sex?” on the first place. You should know how to respect women and make them feel more comfortable with you. Make them laugh and make them feel good when you’re talking to them. Not all women are the same.. Some are whores and some are descent and conservative, but still have their own deepest desires and naughty thoughts they kept inside. You just have to be gentle and nice to them so they could open their thoughts and feelings to you. You must be trustworthy as well.
So if you are looking for a date you can choose and join one of the Adult Dating Sites mentioned on this site. And have fun! Hope you have a successful date!