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Paid Vs Free Dating Sites

Why should you join a premium adult dating site instead of a free dating site?

There are 2 main reasons why would you choose a premium dating site from free sites. The number one reason you should consider is for your own security.  Second is the quality of service.

On premium sites you will most likely find genuine and serious members. They invest money on it and they are likely to be more serious about finding someone for a date. Although there still will be some fake profiles, which mostly are scammers, players and time wasters (both men and women). But they cannot stay much longer on this site. They easily get banned or deleted if they were reported or have done any suspicious activity on the site.

Some sites like use special built-in software like Scamalytics to analyze scammer behavior, IP addresses, profile photos, data and country. Sites like this shares their passion for defeating scammers. They keep their members safe and away from getting scammed and become a victim of frauds.

You may also find some virtual profiles on it (and it’s common these days. Just like virtual support and customer service), but they are just part of the site services and for illustration purposes only. So it can give you a view and a clue of what a good profile should be and the how good the quality of service.  You just have to weed out the real from virtual and from fakes.

Free sites are infested with fake and dead profiles. People on these sites will try to hide their true identity for some reasons. And it is mostly a scam asking for money. Both men and women are a victim of this as well. Especially like a romance scam or whatever scheme they may have that involves financial matter. Some people also join just out of curiosity and just for casual fun online. They will just create a profile, use it for a while and abandon it (it’s a dead profile). Also free sites can be filled with spam messages. Because they don’t have any limits. Anyone can send messages to everyone freely.

Regardless of which dating site you choose, there will be a success and failures. You may be able to find a date, but others may not. It depends on how serious you are about finding someone online. You just have to be aware that no matter what site you will join there still will be different types of people on it and different reasons why they have joined. And also there will be different site’s features and services. Sometimes you will notice that some site’s features differ from men to women. For example, women are given with a free gold membership while men have to pay for it. But not all sites have this feature. Some sites also want women to pay for a membership.  Also, some sites let you send a reply to premium members while other sites don’t. But you don’t have to depend on these because sometimes it doesn’t work. It’s the real and genuine member counts. And it just takes time and a lot of patience to find them.

People can easily join and create a profile on any dating sites. Even if it is free or it is a paid site. Your success is truly depends on you. You just have to be smart and follow your instinct! And be cautious as well.


How Not To Get Ripped Off Or Scammed And Get Good Results On Dating Sites?

We are now at the age when dating sites are on their milestone of helping people find someone online and yet there are still some people who have had some bad experiences on dating sites. Most of them have been scammed or being ripped off.  So here are some guides to avoid this.

You should know how the site works. Look for sites which give a free trial. So you can explore it for a week or two before purchasing any memberships. Some sites occasionally offer a discount so it would be a good advantage. So keep an eye on it. When buying a membership be sure to read carefully the billing page. Sometimes, dating sites offers extra memberships to their other sites. And most people don’t notice it. So if you don’t want to get charged some extra penny then you should be sure to look at the bonus box. You can always find it near the terms and conditions below. Be sure not to include it before hitting the purchase button.

Also, be sure to check the site’s company and google it if they have a good reputation. You can always find it below the site. Just scroll down at the bottom and you can find the “About Us” section or “Contacts”. If you cannot find it, just google the site’s name itself. And always read the “FAQ” section or the terms and conditions first before joining or purchasing any memberships.

When contacted by other members, be aware and vigilant. If someone asked you to go to other sites or any kind of situation where they want you to pay just to watch their cam or before they will meet you. That’s a red flag! Immediately report that profile and block it so they won’t be able to get another victim. Just use free messengers or email to communicate off the site where you met them. Phone numbers is not really necessary.

Then build some connections. Some sites will offer you that you can get laid within some period of time. Don’t believe it. Meeting someone online is not an easy process and it takes quite some time. It needs a lot of effort and patience from your part or the other party and a good communication between you and other members. You must build a relationship first. Doesn’t mean you have to commit. Friendship would be a good start. It builds trust and credibility so you can be open with each other well.

Joining dating sites don’t mean you can meet someone right away in person the day you have joined. It takes several weeks or even months. You just have to be real and genuine. Be polite and friendly and be open to all members. Don’t be rude and snobbish. And you should show some respect to others and don’t be desperate. Just take it easy and be aware of those members who will try to take advantage of you. You know who they are.

But if it’s almost or over a year and you still haven’t met anyone then I think you should find another dating site. There might be a good one for you. You can start here!

P.S. If I missed something you can comment it below.

What Are The Best Adult Dating Sites?

Adult dating sites are one form of entertainment online.

Except from online games and video games, watching videos on YouTube or movies, browsing and searching, chatting to friends, posting pictures and videos on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, and of course, watching porn which most men does, adult dating sites also offers some forms of entertainment. Especially when it comes to sexual and explicit content. It also helps you meet and connect with new open minded people at your comfort zone without the fear of being rejected. Although I don’t consider any best adult dating sites, but if you can enjoy its features and can satisfy all your needs and can give you a good quality of entertainment then it is worth it. It is good enough if it gives a high value for your money spent to it’s membership plans and its services.

But seems almost every adult dating site claims to be the best and number 1 and the most top adult dating sites in the world. Perhaps, there’s no really such thing as the best adult dating site. Almost each of them has their own fluctuation. I have visited a number of review sites for adult dating sites and they seem to give almost the same identical assessment. From positive to negative reviews, ratings, number of users, sites features to pricing and security. And they all don’t guarantee if you could find someone to hook up with or even just meet someone in person. All you can do is chat and watch webcams, photos and videos.

Well, probably It’s because most women on these kind of sites just want to chat and connect online. Looking for the right person whom they can relate and have that special connection with a stranger before she lets you get in her pants. Although it depends on your geographical location. Some states or country have less women on these kind of sites and not all women are near you, or comes from your area. Some of them are from the other states or from another country. So you don’t really have to expect to hook up with someone if you live on a remote island. You’ll be more successful if you live in the city and unless, the site you have joined is popular on that certain location. I am sure you will find more women on it and you will have a huge chance of hooking up and meeting with someone.

So the best way for you to know is to experience it yourself so you can really tell if it’s the best adult dating site for you or not. You can just sign up for a free account and take a look around before you decide if it is worth joining and buying a membership.

But here are some things you should consider finding the best adult dating sites. One is, if there are a lot of active members on it where you can connect and make new friends, (although sometimes, even if there seem to be a lot of active members on it, no one would still even talk to you. The trick here is “upload a photo”. It’s always good to see a face to someone who you are talking to. The second is the easier to reach and fast response time of customer support or service. Because once you have some trouble with your profile or account, the first thing you have to do is to contact customer support for assistance. Especially if you need some help with your billing subscription.

So if you know some adult dating sites that you think are the best then you can comment it below. and I would certainly like to give it a try myself.

How To Meet Someone Online

There are several ways how to meet someone online.

One way is to join a dating site. But except from dating sites, there are still some other online communities or social networks, and chat rooms where you can meet someone online, unless you are searching for a different thing.

Well, for the past 10 years I’ve joined a lot of dating sites. I started from normal or mainstream dating sites to adult dating sites. And they can both be entertaining and sometimes a bit annoying and frustrating. It could be entertaining if you live alone and feels lonely or even just bored and horny. All you just have to do is to create an account and log on it, fill out your profile and browse other member’s profile. Look at their activity feeds and chat or talk to different types of people. You can share some interests and maybe some problems that you may have, even if you can’t see whom you are talking to. But it would be great and more enjoyable if you can do a live chat and see who you are talking to on a webcam in real time. Although you should be careful cause sometimes people use a pre-recorded video to con people. (Read the safety tips page or other blogs on this site for your online security). Dating sites can be frustrating because you can’t find someone to talk to. They will just send you a friend request, add you to their contacts or favorites, and send you flirts and that’s it. They won’t even bother to answer your messages. But I think it’s because we all do have our busy lives. And it is not our priority to stay online on adult dating sites all day. We still have some other things to do like your job/work, run some errands, and some other personal things. So all you need is patience cause it will help you succeed in online dating.

The best way to find your perfect match is to talk to the person personally on the site before exchanging contact infos. Get to know him/her more and better so if you find some chemistry then it should be a good start. But if there’s none, then there’s no need to go any further with that certain person. You just have to move on and find someone else. I’m sure you will still find some other people on the site that would pique your interest.

But you should be cautious on choosing someone because some people will just try to play games on you or just make fun of you. But that’s the world of dating online. Men take advantage of women and women take advantage of men.. Sometimes you’ll meet genuine and real people who are true to themselves and sometimes you’ll come across to people who are pretenders who just want to play games and make fun of you or even take advantage of you. And mostly it’s a con or a scam and fraud if it involves money. So you better be careful with these types of people. Some will try to extort money from you in exchange of your nude pics or videos. They will use it to blackmail you. So you better be careful of whom you are talking to. I don’t think you should trust a person right away on your first conversation. Never give out sensitive personal infos like your bank accounts or credit card numbers or even phone numbers. Or even your nude pics or videos. You can only share it to people whom you trust and trustworthy enough to keep your nude pics and photos privately. Someone who is discreet.. Email would be good for privacy if you like to keep in touch off the dating site.. Web based email would be the best.. You can just create an extra email account for this so your personal email won’t be compromised.. So even though that extra email will get hacked, they won’t get any more personal infos from it.

So if you would like to find someone real and genuine from any dating site, then it should take some time.. Just be patient. Because through a continued conversation in a period of time would gain trust and confidence. I don’t believe in meeting right away cause you never know who you are meeting with. Crimes are happening everywhere these days.. Even in public. You are not truly safe if you really don’t know the person very well. But i agree, there is the excitement when meeting someone new.. You just have to be careful and know the person’s background before deciding on meeting up for anything. If you’re a girl bring a friend or even just let a friend know if ever you are going to meet someone. So if ever something happened to you, your friend will know.

For men who just want to have sex or want to get laid through adult dating site, I think you should not to expect to get it straight right away. Women usually turned off and freak out when you asked her “wanna fuck?” or “want sex?” on the first place. You should know how to respect women and make them feel more comfortable with you. Make them laugh and make them feel good when you’re talking to them. Not all women are the same.. Some are whores and some are descent and conservative, but still have their own deepest desires and naughty thoughts they kept inside. You just have to be gentle and nice to them so they could open their thoughts and feelings to you. You must be trustworthy as well.

So if you are looking for a date you can choose and join one of the Adult Dating Sites mentioned on this site. And have fun! Hope you have a successful date!

Adult Dating Sites Do’s and Don’ts

For those who are new to the Adult Dating world on the internet, there is a whole heap of advice you need to bear in mind when joining an Adult Dating Sites.

However, for those who are already accustomed to it, I’m sure you already have plenty. But I hope these advices and tips might still help you in some other ways. I’ve listed down below some of the Do’s and Don’ts you should keep in mind when joining any Adult Dating Sites.

• Verify your profile and email address. To get more responses and to make your profile valid and active, you should be sure to verify it.
• Fill out your “about me” section. Write a detailed description of yourself. Be brief and specify what you are looking for.
• If you have much time, try to complete your profile. Fill out all the forms and answer all the questions on it to make your profile more expressive.
• Upload a profile pic and add more photos. Be sure it’s not too offensive. It must show your face clearly. For discretion, you can make it private and just allow your friends or in contacts to see it. Not the whole world.
• Update your status even just once in a while to let other members know you are still active.
• Add more friends and be friendly.
• Respect other members and gain more trust and credibility.
• Read your news feed and check who viewed you and flirted with you to see if someone might interest you.
• Join a chat room and forums.
• Write a blog post and share your thoughts, interests, desires, fantasies and experiences.

• NEVER give out your credit card or login details to anyone. No matter what the reason is, don’t ever share these sensitive infos. You can’t afford to lose it.
• Never send out money to anyone you don’t know. Not until you verified the person. It’s good to help someone some time, but be sure they are telling the truth and say they are who they are.
• Never pay for cam girls or any other women who asked you to join another site. It’s a total rip off and you will never get to see that person.
• Never, ever share your bank details with anyone. Your bank will never ask you for your account number, PIN or password over email.
• Never pay to verify yourself. It should always be free.
• Never post your email or phone numbers, Skype, kik, etc.) publicly on your page. Scammers can easily get in touch with you and your inbox would be filled with spam messages. And It could be used for phishing scams as well.
• Never keep the same passwords for your various online accounts. It’s a good idea to have different passwords for your emails, bank log-ins and social media accounts. It may seem like an added burden, but it can make a big difference to the security of your profiles.
• Avoid being arrogant and aggressive, it’s not friendly.
• Never get involved with misunderstanding and arguments. Mostly it will lead to a fight and will raise your blood pressure to the roof.
• Don’t Discriminate.

Adult Dating Sites should always be fun and safe for all its users and members. So I hope these tips and advice would guide you on your online dating and pleasure. Always stay safe and avoid becoming a victim of online scams and frauds. And have a successful Adult Dating experience.

How Do I Buy A Membership Without Getting Extra Charges On Adult Dating Sites?

Some paid members are wondering why they have been charged more than what it cost on their plans.

They were surprised that they were billed an extra charge and they didn’t even know how it happened and why? Well, this post will explain it to you why and how it happened?

First, you must be mindful about the billing page. Be sure what payment processor you are on before you fill out the forms on it. So you know where to go later if you want to cancel your membership. There are numerous payment processor used by these sites. They are and for Sweetdiscreet, iHookup, Blacktryst and

But what are these payment processors?

A payment processor is a service that enables Merchants to receive debit or Credit Card payments online by providing a connection to an Acquiring Bank. These processors perform many functions such as evaluating whether transactions are valid and approved. If the customer has sufficient funds, the transaction is authorized,  the funds transfer from the customer’s account, and the website is notified.

So to avoid being billed for extra charges, you must not include special offers or another subscription to another site. How to do this? It’s simple. Just uncheck the small box below the forms on the billing page before you pay or complete your purchase or your transaction. See the pics below:



Those encircled portions shown in the pics are the special offers or subscriptions to another sites. To avoid these, be sure to uncheck the small box so you would be sure not to pay for another subscription and won’t get extra charges.

Hope this post helps you in some ways. For more questions, just leave your comments below.

How To Verify A Person On Adult Dating Sites?

There are 3 simple ways to verify a person if he or she is legit and real. And you don’t need to take your wallet out just to verify someone or yourself.

  1. Call Her/Him – Ask for a phone number where you can call her/him. If he/she can’t provide you a local phone number and won’t accept calls and won’t call you back then she/he is totally not real. Don’t believe on texts or emails because they can easily create fake accounts and won’t leave a trace. And even if they told you it’s private and don’t want to disclose their privacy, then you should start to doubt about it. Always follow your instinct. Mostly these kinds of conversation ends up to a scam.
  2. Ask For A Photo – Selfies are the best way to verify a person. You can ask her/him to take a selfie with a piece of paper which their names are written on it. They cannot fake it cause it is in real time. If they cannot provide that then you should stop talking to this person.
  3. Video Chats – There a lot of video chat applications that are for free. You can simply ask the person to have a video chat. This way you can talk to him/her in real time with voice and video. Be careful of pre-recorded videos. Mostly its about 3-5mins and it starts all over again after being played for a certain period of time. If this won’t work then it proves that the person you are talking to is not for real. They are hiding behind the camera.

If you have something more to add on these 3 ways, you can write it below. Post your comments and tips. This will help members of this site avoid being conned and scammed. And lets have a fun and safe adventure on these adult dating sites.

Why Would I Join Adult Dating Sites?

Adult Dating sites were created for Adults seeking for online pleasures.

It is for everyone who wants to have some fun online and socialize with horny men and women in the comfort of their homes. It was made to help every Adults to connect with every like-minded singles, attached or married adults who wants to explore their sexual needs. Share common interests and fantasies in your local area or around the world. If you’re feeling horny and want to chat and express your fantasy and sexual desires, then this might be the right place for you. You can connect with anyone who are looking for the same things as you do. Someone that might be interesting to you. Chat, flirt and arrange a meet up or a hookup when everything goes well between you and the other members. Everyone who are above 18 years of age and have reached the age of majority in the jurisdiction which you accessing these sites from then you are very much welcome to join. But If you are offended by sexually explicit material or you do not want to be exposed to the type of material displayed on these Web sites, please leave the Websites immediately. Additionally, if it is illegal to view sexually explicit material in your jurisdiction, you must exit the Website and discontinue use of the Service immediately. The Website makes no representation of any kind regarding the legality of any of the material displayed on the Website in your jurisdiction. Read more about the Terms of Use of these sites before you decide to join. These sites are not actually for everyone!

But if you are looking to have some fun online, wants to connect with men and women and wants to explore your sexual needs and desires then these sites are for you. Choose one that suits your preferences and start your journey on online dating. Fulfill your sexual desires and fantasies! Join Now!

What Benefits Can I Get From A Paid Membership On Adult Dating Sites?

Buying a membership lets you use all the features of the sites and benefits you from connecting with other members.

With a paid membership you can enjoy exchanging messages with other members, chat and flirt in real time with live cams. Occasionally these sites offer promotional trial memberships to its premium services at special discounted prices. Users that sign up for such trial memberships will be automatically renewed at the end of the trial period at the normal membership rate specified at the moment of trial subscription, unless the User cancels before the end of the trial period. Sometimes they also have exclusive sale offers that are valid for a period of time. So you should watch out for that.

But why should I pay for these services? Registered Users are able to access a limited set of the Service’s features without charge after providing required registration information. Paid Members are given access to all features included as part of the membership option chosen when applying for the membership. Being a paid member will help you connect with other members. Will help you get to know someone before meeting up. Finding someone real and genuine from any Adult dating sites would take some time. You just have to be patient. Although it’s a sex site don’t expect to get someone for sex real fast.. Because if you do, you will end up with whores and sluts. But through a continued conversation in a period of time would gain trust and confidence. Meeting someone right away just to get to know the person is not advisable for women. Because meeting a total stranger just out of the blue is awkward and most women are anxious to meet someone whom they have met online. They are not really comfortable until they know the person’s background and get to know the person very well. But there is the excitement when meeting someone new.. You just have to be careful and know the person’s background before deciding on meeting up for anything. And instead of spending money on gas, dining, and usually on some form of entertainment, such as movies or a concert just to see if you like the person, why not pay for a membership? This would be a good start for your journey of online dating. This will help you get to know and connect with more people in your comfort zone. Then you can start to choose the person whom you want to meet. Because you never know the first date could go terribly and you may never see each other again. And you have wasted some of your hard earned cash.

So what are you waiting for? Choose your plans that would suit your budget and Sign up Now!. Start socializing with one of hottest Adult Social Network Today and Have fun finding what you are looking for! It’s an Adventure!

Are Adult Dating Sites Legit And Safe?

Most of you might have these questions and doubts on your minds. Are these sites legit and safe? Are there any real members and users on it?

From my experience, I could say YES, I’ve been a member of these sites for about 8 years now (that’s almost a decade) and I’ve been active since then. But not really active that I log on it almost every day.. I just log on it once in a while or from time to time when I have some extra time to spend for my pleasures.

That time I was also anxious about joining these sites. I also have the same doubts and questions that you might have right now. But I said to myself, you wouldn’t know until you give it a try. Besides, it is free to register. So I filled out the forms and signed up for a free account and set up my profile. After verifying my email, I already received messages and friend requests from women, but it seems, some of these women are not for real.

These are computer generated profile and you can find them on,, and And they are called ‘Sweethaarts’ and labeled with SH with a heart icon on top of it. The ‘Sweethaarts’ service is incorporated to encourage and facilitate broader enjoyment of all the Website’s services, including the following:

a. Enhance the online companionship and entertainment experience
b. Demonstrate to users the features and communication tools of the site
c. Encourage broader participation in our services
d. Educate members regarding the site’s various features and communication tools
e. Ensure compliance with our Terms and Conditions
f. Facilitate account development

And no physical meeting will ever take place between you and any Sweethaart, and that the exchange of messages between you and a Sweethaart is for entertainment purposes.

But don’t worry, these Sweethaarts are harmless and they just exist on the site for entertainment purposes only. There are still real people on it. You just have to find them. And the first thing you should do is take a look at their status. You can easily tell if the profile is real or not by reading their status. You’ll notice that they are updated regularly and they have no signs like of SH or Sweethaarts. These are real profiles created by real users.. Just be aware of fakes, cam girls and scammers. You can easily identify them if they ask you to join another website or ask for money from you before meeting or any other activities. Read more about them on here!

And if you ask me if this site is safe? The answer is still yes. These sites use https:// for encryption. But you might ask what does it mean? Well, for IT experts it is called Hyper Text Transfer Protocol Secure. Its a secured version of HTTP. And it’s a network protocol which data is sent between your browser and the website that you are connected to. The ‘S’ at the end of HTTPS stands for ‘Secure’. It means all communications between your browser and the website are encrypted. You’ll see this at the start of your website address and you can see a display of a padlock icon in the address bar to visually indicate that an HTTPS connection is in effect. For more safety tips online. You can read more about here!

These are a totally legit and secured sites. It is just the users who are trying to abuse the site services and they do not pre screen every individual who joins the sites. So to help these sites to become clean and safe from these abusers, we just have to be aware and report immediately if you have been contacted by them. Block and Ignore these profiles or report them immediately so they will be deleted and so you can help these adult dating communities become a safe place for all its users..

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